Couples & family therapy · Amsterdam

Anna Perret — Couples & Family Therapy Amsterdam

Every relationship goes through phases where it helps to rediscover what connects you.

About

Psychologist, couples & family therapist

I'm Anna Perret, a psychologist and couples & family therapist (NVRG) with over 10 years of experience. Like many of us, I grew up with romantic ideas about love — the notion that there is one soulmate with whom everything simply falls into place.

While I'm still a romantic at heart, I've also learned that lasting happiness in love isn't a given. We all carry our quirks, blind spots and protective patterns that can get in the way. I love working with couples to explore what's really happening, and to witness trust and connection finding their way back.

As a registered couples and family therapist, I'm a member of the Dutch Association for Relationship and Family Therapy (NVRG). I've been trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), schema therapy and EMDR, and continue to deepen my practice with new insights in couples therapy.

Anna Perret
Approach

Looking beneath the patterns — at what's truly at play

In therapy we explore your patterns together, and the (attachment) fears and needs that lie beneath them. We work to restore connection and safety by re-creating understanding and recognition for each other's feelings, and by developing new, more helpful ways of relating.

I work with evidence-based interventions from systemic couples therapy. Over the years I've trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), EMDR (trauma treatment) and schema therapy.

More recently, I've increasingly integrated body-oriented work, having seen that talking alone isn't always enough.

What shifts between you

  • More understanding of each other
  • Deeper connection and intimacy
  • Restored safety and trust
  • More ease, lightness and joy
Programmes

How many sessions do we need?

Many couples find a short programme is enough to feel reconnected and continue on their own. When difficulties have been around longer, or when personal themes also play a role, a more extensive programme may suit you better.

  • Insight into your relationship pattern
  • Less escalation and misunderstanding
  • Learn to communicate and repair during conflict
  • More emotional safety
  • Insight into how your backgrounds influence your relationship pattern
  • Learn to better attune to each other's needs
  • Restore trust and emotional safety
  • Space for individual deepening alongside the relationship work
  • Space for trauma-focused treatment if needed

Single sessions

Individual session · 50 min€120
Couples therapy · 60 min€130
4.7/5 based on Google Reviews

Testimonials

Anna is an incredibly warm and supportive psychologist who has helped me a great deal. From the very first moment, she creates a safe and welcoming atmosphere where I feel completely at ease and able to be myself. What I find particularly special about her is how well she listens and how quickly she gets to the core of what is going on. As a result, every session feels valuable and focused; I always leave with insights that I can genuinely use. Anna also has a strong balance between listening, explaining, and doing. We don’t just talk, we also practise concretely, for example through conversations or guided meditations. That combination of insight and practical experience has helped me a lot. Thanks to her calm presence, sharp observations, and practical approach, I have made significant progress in a short period of time. I wholeheartedly recommend Anna to anyone looking for an involved, knowledgeable, and effective psychologist.
Simon
Anna helped my husband and me communicate better and enjoy being at home together again. We felt understood right away. She listened carefully and pinpointed exactly what we couldn't see ourselves.
Sofie
Anna combines warmth and compassion with sharp insight and thoughtful questions. With speed and humor, she creates a safe environment while consistently getting to the heart of the matter.
Merlin

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Contact

Book an introduction

Feel welcome to get in touch. Together, we can explore what feels like the right fit.

Practical
  • Sessions in Amsterdam (centre)
  • Sessions online
  • No referral required
  • Therapy available in Dutch & English
Cancellation
  • Free of charge up to 24 hours in advance
  • After that, 50% is charged
Anna Perret